11.2.09

Chris Brown And Rihanna=Media Field Day

For the past couple of days my favorite hip hop and gossip sites have been hitting me with almost minute by minute updates of Chris Brown and Rihanna's "situation". Everyday there is a different story, another celeb giving their thoughts, a different "police report"(made up) and other blah. I for one DO NOT condone nor excuse abuse of any kind whether its to a man or a woman. Your hands come into play when you can't use your words and talk things out. Now I do condone self-defense. If someone hits me I have to defend myself or the situation may get worse for me. Now I don't know the story nor do I want to find out. But I feel like the media has taken this and ran with it. At the end of the day both of them are human and they go through the same things we go through. They are saying that Chris has a history of this. So why all of a sudden its just now coming out? Please pass the bull. Now his stepfather wants to speak up and give his thoughts(please shut sit down and fall back...again). I just people with let this go and when the real offical stuff come out then you take it for what it is. Stop making the situation worse. If he did hit her he is wrong for it and he should be punished. If she hit him she is wrong for it and she should be punished.

Stop trying to make them super people and let them be human.

Just my rants

Nik

10.2.09

Nikita vs. Nik

Life has a way of throwing you a curve ball, yeah I know this. But does life have the pitching machine set on 20 a day? I have been fighting myself for the past couple of days. I have been fighting myself on what I know I should do and what I want to do. I have been playing myself for the last couple of months. I have not been facing the woman in the mirror. I have been avoiding her like a plague. I know if I confront her she will break me down like a baby. She will reveal all of the thoughts I have been keeping in my hush box. She will show me that I have not been loving me right. That's woman is bad. Sorry Beyonce but she more than a diva. She's been put on the back burner and I know she is mad.